What is it like to be in love? It’s terrible yes. Sometimes it IS terrible. you get sucked into something so powerful that you can lose yourself. And when it all ends, especially if it’s your first love, you come out of it not knowing who you are. It’s not always flowers and butterflies, because that’s not true for every relationship. But one day, you’ll be lucky to find that. Just like how i found my husband of 18 years. How i found my best friend.